Often people feel that their goodness is taken for granted by their relatives, friends, or by their loved ones. Have you ever realised what are the repercussions of this. Even when you know and still allow any one to take advantage of your goodness is not something to be proud of. That’s my belief.
It may sound a little bitter to hear but those taking you for granted may hurt you genuinely at times, they may not take care of your feelings as you yourself have never complained and have been fine in every situation.
“Why I say it’s your mistake?” Because you have given too much importance to the feelings of the people who are attached to your life.
It’s very important to understand and find reasons when people are taking advantage of your goodness.
- You love them: often in relationships whom we love we take things for granted. Knowing the fact that the person will not feel bad. I suppose sometimes one should express where they felt bad so that it doesn’t created conflict in a relationship.
- They rule your life: often you allow people to take advantage of your goodness because they are the reason for you to smile and you become weak in front of them. You forget your needs in life and start living life the way your loved ones want.
- You are adjusting: being adjusting in life is not bad but because of this nature when you keep others first while taking decisions, people will definitely take advantage as they know you will not harm them in any way. Hence, at times it becomes easy to play with your emotions.
Loving someone unconditionally is not bad but when it’s taken for granted, at some point it becomes a little problem. As it not only affects your emotions but also affects the self-confidence of the people whom you love. As they are totally dependent on you and may often hesitate to take Independent decisions in life.
Sometimes when your love is taken for granted, it fails to make people realise what difficulties they are facing to make their loved ones smile. Hence,those receiving love doesn’t value the kindness, love and care of the one’s who bestow it as they feel that’s their moral duty to do.
Loving someone unconditionally is something beyond expressions but when the loved ones misunderstand the love given than it becomes a matter of concern.
“The most painful thing in life is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” – Ernest Heminway