Thoughts of family members:
Husband : I see a tired wife with unwashed hair.
Wife : I see my constantly nervous husband who’s indifferent to me.
Husband : I see my disobedient, capricious son.
Son : I always see my mother dissatisfied and I always see my father silent. To be really honest I hardly see my father.
Wife : I see my husband to whom his job is more important than family.
Husband : I see my wife who doesn’t let me relax after a hard day’s work.
We see what we want to see.
In reality :
Wife fails to notice that her husband works a lot so as to earn money for his family.
Husband fails to notice his wife you spends all day preparing food, cleaning the house, doing shopping so that it feels comfortable and warm at house.
Parents fail to notice that their child is missing the absence and attention of his father and mother’s love.
It’s very important to make balance in life. All are making best efforts to give the best to the family but if it’s not valued and felt from heart what each is doing there is no point of dragging yourself in the name of work for the sake of family.
Families are formed with hard work. You need to spend time and communicate your problems and happiness to make things easy for everyone. To increase the understanding among relationships. Understand others and express what you feel for them. Don’t live just for the sake of living.
Unite yourself and stay happy because it’s difficult to form a family filled with love, care and emotions. If your hard work and lack of communication is creating a gap in relationships than there is no point of working hard in the name of family.
So true… Nicely written… Thank you for sharing..
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Great post 😃
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Great..
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Wonderful post 🙂
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Absolutely so
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Amazingly done.. just loved it.. 👍🏼😇👌🏼
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Thank you 😊
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😇💕
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Well done. Often in our relationships and especially family ones, we miss or take granted those around us often because they are always there for us and always have been. It’s that taking for granted that puts us at the top of a rocky and often slippery slope – the deception of permanence. Never take for granted those near and dearest to us.
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So true. Definitely taken for granted make things rocky. Thank you 😊
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You’re welcome. Great post.
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Great post! As a new upcoming blogger you inspire me. This was written very nicely 😁
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Thank you so much for your kind words.
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Your very welcome!!!
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My dear friend
Yes, we should learn to have respect to each other and when respect is growing in our heart also our consciousness is growing as well, because we learn mutual understanding, we learn not compare, we learn not to see the faults in others, but develop a view towards ourselves to avoid violence of every kind (starting in our head)
Thank you very much for having shared this beautiful post, my dear friend 🙂
From heart to heart
Didi
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Thank you so much didi and definitely your profound words add so much to our knowledge and make us more wise.
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My dear Tanvir,
The credit goes to my Master Sant Kirpal Singh – without Him I am nothing. As He is my light moving “me” like a shadow projecting me to the wall as shadow games. I am not even existing, because I play only one role, the role of the One…
Big hugs my dear friend
Didi
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Dear Tanvir that it may not be misunderstood: But when we are empty He can take a seat in us and this cannot be the case as long our I and ego is there. So with the help and grace of God we have to empty us from ourselves (from our ego and mind, from our I), then we longer are the Doers but He. In the end the drop merges with the Ocean… As also Christ has done: “I and my Father are one”.
If anything is unclear, please ask.
Thank you my dear friend
Didi
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Thank you didi. Surely a beautiful preaching shared to be understood.
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Thanks, my dear Tanvir 🙂
Have a happy time
Didi
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Wish you the same didi
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Thanks, my friend 🙂
Didi
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Truth!
It is important to acknowledge every member of the home because it’s not always easy where we (I) have neglected people when too busy with my own routine.
I always support open communication and honesty because I would be mortified if the first part was what my family was really feeling.
It’s not easy always but if they don’t speak (myself included) how can I always know.
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Well said and shared your opinion. Yes true sometimes it’s very important to say how are you feeling to make the other person understand as silence may sometimes misunderstood.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful feedback
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Great post once again from!
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Thank you Abhay
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Very nicely penned, I totally agree with you. Thanks for sharing 😇🙏🏻
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So very true. Communication is so important in all relationships.
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Absolutely yes and thank you
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Thanks for posting. Wise perspective on raising a family. I wholeheartedly agree with you, although I must admit, as a child who suffered from absent parents, and a parent who strives to do better for my kids, it’s not an easy thing to do.
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Truly can understand and thank you
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Very true
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I accept your message, sometimes can’t understand why people are running so fast. For the change we have to learn the meaning of life.
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Absolutely true.
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Well said Tanvir. Balance and understanding is required between all family members to have a loving atmosphere at home and in relationships.
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Thank you Radhika
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So true are the words.
Another thing to note: I have nominated you for mystery blogger award, Hope you will enjoy answering questions. Please check my recent post 🙂
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We need to look things from other’s perspective also to understand them and to feel grateful!
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Absolutely yes. Things often go hand in hand and understanding each other and expressing without criticism.
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Thanks for this interesting and useful post.
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Thank you so much 😊
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You are welcome!
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Beautiful depiction of life!
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Thank you
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Oh wow very well thought out post here. The different ways we see one another might not be accurate – how wife sees husband isn’t how he sees it as being.. Really makes one stop and think!
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So true and thank you
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This is a much needed message indeed.
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Thank you 😊
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True. Thank you for sharing your wise words with us. Sending much Love, Light and Healing Energies Your way. God bless 🙂 ❤
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Thank you and wishing same for you 😊
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your beautiful and encouraging words, Tanvir. Both have to work together to make a beautiful life of love and abundance. Lovely.
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Thank you so much Kamal 😊
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Welcome always dear Tanvir
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This is such a great and important post! Thanks for sharing 🙂
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Thank you 😊
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Kya khub likhaa hai….apke jiwan kaa udeshya pariwar hai…..sukh suvidhaa kaa aadhaar priwar hai….agar hamari mahatwakanksha pariwar se dur karti hai phir kisi prakar ke mihnat ka koyee auchitya nahin
Pariwar hai to sabkuch hai
magar
sabkuch hai aur pariwar nahi to
kuchh bhi nahin.
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Absolutely true words shared. Thank you so much sir for your wonderful thoughts shared. Was truly incomplete without your contribution.
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HA.. HA..
Only great people know to give respect.You are really great.I am grateful to you & thanks again.
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Oh sir that’s your kindness
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👏👏
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So true and well said!
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Getting real is hard, Tanvir, when all we see is about us. Interesting perspectives and gets to the heart of it. Love your observations and thoughts on family and, you’re right, it takes work. Be fun if there was a way to continue these thoughts with conversations with everyone. Maybe one day. Thank you for sharing. Enjoyed the read.
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Thank you for thoughts shared and glad you enjoyed.
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I appreciate your article because it’s so true. Reminds me of this article that I found on this topic that found helpful: https://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/awake-no2-2018-jul-aug/
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Thank you much and will surely go through the reading 😊
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Well written.. Respecting each other is one way we can keep relationships healthy
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😊 thank you
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So very true
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