Thoughts of family members:
Husband : I see a tired wife with unwashed hair.
Wife : I see my constantly nervous husband who’s indifferent to me.
Husband : I see my disobedient, capricious son.
Son : I always see my mother dissatisfied and I always see my father silent. To be really honest I hardly see my father.
Wife : I see my husband to whom his job is more important than family.
Husband : I see my wife who doesn’t let me relax after a hard day’s work.
We see what we want to see.
In reality :
Wife fails to notice that her husband works a lot so as to earn money for his family.
Husband fails to notice his wife you spends all day preparing food, cleaning the house, doing shopping so that it feels comfortable and warm at house.
Parents fail to notice that their child is missing the absence and attention of his father and mother’s love.
It’s very important to make balance in life. All are making best efforts to give the best to the family but if it’s not valued and felt from heart what each is doing there is no point of dragging yourself in the name of work for the sake of family.
Families are formed with hard work. You need to spend time and communicate your problems and happiness to make things easy for everyone. To increase the understanding among relationships. Understand others and express what you feel for them. Don’t live just for the sake of living.
Unite yourself and stay happy because it’s difficult to form a family filled with love, care and emotions. If your hard work and lack of communication is creating a gap in relationships than there is no point of working hard in the name of family.