In my previous post Saying an Apology!!! I had discussed about the importance of apology in life!! No doubt saying sorry helps in building the blocks of emotional feelings and improving interpersonal relationships. Apology is a way of acknowledging the other person who is hurt regardless who so ever is at fault!!
But sometimes there are situations in life which might hurt or offend people but that may be necessary for your own personal growth, self-esteem or happiness. Sometimes for your own decisions might hurt other people, but that doesn’t mean you are bad but it shows that you also care about yourself and take decisions that are difficult when they are in your favour .
There are few things in life for which you should never be or feel an apology!!!
- Never apologise for having an opinion: Self expression is a positive tool of communication and right of every individual. Every individual being from different background have their own thoughts. Automatically every one will have their own point of view and at any point of discussions the opinion of an individual may differ but doesn’t refers that he or she is wrong.
- Making a positive change in your life: Positive change in life should be rewarded and not punished. Many times people around you don’t want you change, even if the change is better for you. Good or bad, people might want you to remain the same but at that point taking decision for self is not to be regretted for.
- Never apologise for your imperfections: None of us are perfect. I suppose imperfections should be embraced rather than criticize. It’s the imperfections only in a person that make him or her unique.
- Never apologise for taking out time for self: Spending time with oneself is very important as we all know. People may nag you by giving time to self and may call you introvert. I suppose that can never be a reason to be bothered as giving time to self as it helps in focusing the thoughts and to recharge your energy.
- Never apologise for Saying “No”: Sometimes it’s good to say no. You don’t need to agree on a matter you think it’s not appropriate from your prospective specially if it’s in well-being, just because someone wants you to say Yes. It’s better to say sorry if you have disappointed someone rather than apologise.
- Never apologise for getting emotional: A person without emotions is like banging your head on wall. We all experience with different emotions like love, care , compassion, anger etc. If someone can’t understand your feelings and leaves you in vulnerability, might tempt you to hide your emotions or apologise to hide them among these people. Which means it’s better to stay away from such people who can’t be the part of your feelings.
- Never apologise for following your dreams: Life is too short to apologise for living the life we want to. The day you being to pursue your dream your life wakes up, adding meaning to every thought of yours. Chase your dreams and don’t apologise for wanting more from work.
Never apologise for what you feel, it’s like saying sorry for being REAL.
Great post!
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Thank you 😊
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Bang on Tanvir. Just as apologising doesn’t always mean you are wrong, in the same way not apologising for something you believe in, doesn’t mean you are rude.
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Thank you for the wonderful praise and I absolutely agree with your thought !!
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We definitely need to learn to say « no » … boundaries are essential… just like never apologising or feeling weird for the changes we make in our life. As you said: it’s OUR life.
Thank you for reminding!
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Welcome and I am glad for deep feedback
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Well said Tanvir. Its very important to have boundaries clear…We should be the person behind the steering wheel of our life.
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Very true and thank you 😊
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Another wonderful post. Knowing the difference between ego and self respect! Very well done, Tanvir. 🙂
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Thank you so much for the encouragement!! 😊 Nandita
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Most welcome 🙂
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Love this post! Really agree!
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Thank you so much 😊
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You’re welcome 😊
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Wow!
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You shared a essential post very much needed in life. To be ourselves we have to know when to apologize and when to not.
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That’s true and thank for the thoughtful note 😊
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You are welcome
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Amen 😄
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What an excellent post. Very inspirational advice that we can all benefit so that we feel less lousy about ourselves. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you so much for the appreciation
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Pratyek post ki bhaanti khubsurat post……ek shbdon me….utkrisht.
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Thank you sir for the lovely feedback
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Swagat apka..
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I can’t tell you how motivating this post is, on a personal level for me. Thank you so much! 🙂
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Oh I am overwhelmed that it was helpful to you.. thank you 😊
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So exquisite!💛
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Thank you 😊
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Hmmmm… your blog posts are super amazing!… I love it ❤ It's worth sharing…. 🙂
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Thank you so much for such positive feedback
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I agree completely, why do we always have to justify our life to others.
An excellent post dear.
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Thank you so much and yes agree with your thought !!
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Very True, as a uniform feature as most of your posts, its also very motivating.
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Thank you for the lovely feedback and I am glad you felt so!! Thank you for reading !!
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Important to be true to self . 🙂
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Very valuable post !
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