Remember the key of happiness that you yourself is responsible for you own happiness. If you expect others to make you happy, you will always be disappointed!!
Our happiness depends on the decisions we take along with comparing the life’s with others. When changes comes in life we all have to take few tough decisions we might not have taken before often fear acts as the barrier in acceptance of change and taking those tough decisions.
Being happy is very important and to be happy we need to find ways to live life in our own terms. Nothing stays for longer. Happiness is all in our mood, mind and the way we live. The reason for your unhappiness is your feelings, comparison with others and always showing discontent with what happens to you.
When we look around ourselves it depends upon your vision that whether to want to destroy your happiness by getting more eager to move ahead of people around you who are progressing or be content with people who are with moderate or poor living.
In life when ever you feel unhappy look at them:
If you think your salary is low than what about her
If you think you don’t have any friends than think about them
When you feel like giving up think about this man
If you think you suffer in life than think do you suffer as much as he does
If you complain about your transport system , how about them
If your society is unfair to you, than how about her?
Are you are still complaining?
Enjoy life as it is and how it comes to you. Things are lot worse for others and a lot better for us.
Someone got Nike for you instead of Adidas?
But poor have only one brand
For you studies may annoy you but those you can’t afford and have passion to do something in life ask them.
You have lot options in food that’s why when healthy food like vegetables offered, you don’t want to eat but what about those who starve from hunger. And often starvation leads them to pick food from undesirable places like dustbins.
Look around yourself, observe and be thankful in the transition of life for what you have. Don’t count about how many moments are there your life but think how much life is there in a moment.
There are many things in life that will attract your eyes but only few will catch your heart. Pursue those …..
So make a habit of complaining less or not at all and give more. And you will feel what true happiness is!!
In this course you will realise :
- Happiness is not feeling good at all the times.
- Happiness is not always being rich or affording what you want.
- Happiness is not the final destination.
Because being happy is knowing your power to choose what to have and what to let go.
Nicely Written and beautifully Expressed.
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Thank you 😊
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Beautifully written….one part has lot of brand but poor has only one…that mean jugaad.
One part has variety of food but poor only depend on dustbin…..
Deep thought..
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Thank you very much sir for understanding and looking the depth
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“He is not crippled but our mind is” brilliant post Tanvir!
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Thank you 😊
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Your welcome 🙂
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I know I am priveleged and all but at times the depressed heart also feels to fly.I really am satisfied to have so much in my life but I wonder still what will give my heart happiness!
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That’s so lovely and thank you 😊
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Pleasure.:)
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Very touchy post … so much truth said..
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Thank you
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We should be thankful for what we have. Happiness is something have to work on it!
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Absolutely true!! Thank you for understanding the depth
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
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Problem is the first line what you wrote “Our happiness depends on the decisions we take along with comparing the life’s with others” .. 😁 Moment we start comparing our life with others ..everything breaks down.. however rich and successful you are .. you are going to find someone more richer and crib about it…. so never compare..
Nice writeup.. and very true..
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Absolutely true !! Well interpreted!! Thankx for Stopping by and sharing your precious thoughts
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My pleasure to do so.. 😁
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Nice post… dear… 👌👍
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Thank you 😊
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A ruminating post…
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Welcome…
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Thoughtful and educative post. You never fail to amaze me with your unending wisdom and beautiful heart.
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I am overwhelmed!! Thank you for lovely words!!
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Very well written, great piece! For me, it’s how you perceive happiness. People have different standards. At 31, my happiness is being able to spend it with my family. Not work, not money, not expensive cars or clothes etc. Just my family! Xx
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Absolutely true!! Well said and thank you very much for liking and understanding the post!!
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Wow
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Thank you😊
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I like the photo comparisons, they are very effective. It’s easy to forget that we’re all so privileged!
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Thank you for the affective reviews 😊
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Very uplifting post!
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Thank you 😊
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Very touching post. Perfectly written
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Thank you so much 😊
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That’s truly amazing! 🙂
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Thank you 😊
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I feel if all of your articles are published it would be useful to many. Your posts are like life teaching lessons, I feel it can’t be published as book.
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Ohh Subhashini ji thank you for the biggest compliment have ever got!! You loved it that’s the big gift and happiness for me!! I really don’t have any words to thank you!!
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Welcome dear, you deserve much more.
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That’s your love and warm heart
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This was an incredible post. You write the truth. We all need to think less of ourselves and more if others.
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Thank you very much 😊
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No worries.
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lovely post
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Thank you!!
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Awesome Post👍
I have nominated you for the “Unique Blogger Award” check it out-
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Thank for the nomination
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My pleasure…😊👍
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You expressed this so beautifully.
I wouldn’t say I am unhappy. I might not feel good all the time, but I can say “I am happy.”
Thanks for this lovely share.
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Welcome and happy you loved it
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😂 Nice post!!
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Thank you
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Loved your post!!
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Thank you very much 😊
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Very true Tanvir! We whine and crib about trivial issues. But there are thousands who inspite of all the hardships embrace life with a smile. It’s time we express gratitude for our blessings and spread happiness and smiles😊
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Thank you for the lovely thoughts shared!!
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Very motivating in genre. The photograph you used give additional emphasis to your words. To motivate the people in this depressed world is an altruistic act. Keep up the good work. Thank you!
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Thank you for sharing you wonderful thoughts
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Swagatam😊
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There is so much to feel blessed for 🙂 Thank you for the heartfelt reminders ❤
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Most welcome and yes correctly said there’s a lot to be thankful
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thanks for this realization.
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Thank you
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Very inspiring post. Love the photos!
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Thank you very much
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Really awesome post!!!!We are all blessed.
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Thank you very much !!
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I have nominated you for Unique Blogger Award. Please check it here:https://manju571.wordpress.com/2017/07/29/unique-blogger-award/ 🙂
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For sure !! Thank you will revert back soon 😊
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Great article!! Keep it up 👍😍👌
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Sure and thanks a ton friend for the nominations!!
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Thanks a lot!
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Awesome….👌
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Thank you 😊
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Spellbounding! Congratulations 👍
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Thank you 😊
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Beautifully written.So true and heart touching fact.We realize it later.Happiness is all around if we have a eye to look ,to feel .
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Thank you for the lovely comment
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Most welcome tanvir😊
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Amazing post lovely!
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Thank you 😊
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Brilliant one!
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Thank you dear 😊
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It’s sad that we as humans do tend to look at people much worse in order to appreciate what we have in the moment. A lot of that self loathing comes from comparing yourself to other people around you. We look a their situations and then compare.
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lovely post. we should actually focus on how we can leave an impression on others life by doing something worth but we rather crib for something which we’re deprived of.
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Thank you for consideration and lovely thought
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Beautifully introspective! Let’s count our blessings ☺️☺️
Cheers, Charu
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Thank you so much for going through my blog and giving time to read so many articles and also for the lovely comment!! Have a great day ahead !!
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Your writings are wonderful, I’ll keep visiting the blog friend…
Cheers, Charu
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Thank you 😊
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Beautifully expressed!!
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Thank you
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