Remember the key of happiness that you yourself is responsible for you own happiness. If you expect others to make you happy, you will always be disappointed!!
Our happiness depends on the decisions we take along with comparing the life’s with others. When changes comes in life we all have to take few tough decisions we might not have taken before often fear acts as the barrier in acceptance of change and taking those tough decisions.
Being happy is very important and to be happy we need to find ways to live life in our own terms. Nothing stays for longer. Happiness is all in our mood, mind and the way we live. The reason for your unhappiness is your feelings, comparison with others and always showing discontent with what happens to you.
When we look around ourselves it depends upon your vision that whether to want to destroy your happiness by getting more eager to move ahead of people around you who are progressing or be content with people who are with moderate or poor living.
In life when ever you feel unhappy look at them:
If you think your salary is low than what about her
If you think you don’t have any friends than think about them
When you feel like giving up think about this man
If you think you suffer in life than think do you suffer as much as he does
If you complain about your transport system , how about them
If your society is unfair to you, than how about her?
Are you are still complaining?
Enjoy life as it is and how it comes to you. Things are lot worse for others and a lot better for us.
Someone got Nike for you instead of Adidas?
But poor have only one brand
For you studies may annoy you but those you can’t afford and have passion to do something in life ask them.
You have lot options in food that’s why when healthy food like vegetables offered, you don’t want to eat but what about those who starve from hunger. And often starvation leads them to pick food from undesirable places like dustbins.
There are many things in life that will attract your eyes but only few will catch your heart. Pursue those …..
So make a habit of complaining less or not at all and give more. And you will feel what true happiness is!!
In this course you will realise :
- Happiness is not feeling good at all the times.
- Happiness is not always being rich or affording what you want.
- Happiness is not the final destination.
Because being happy is knowing your power to choose what to have and what to let go.